Desire Divas

 

It was not too long ago, Self-Love and Masturbation were dirty words or considered taboo to so many Ladies and therefore not discussed with their peers.  I'm so glad we got passed that. And, today Ladies are seeking more information on becoming Desire Divas.  In my conversations with younger women my motto is “Love Yourself, So You can Love Others”.  In my conversations with my peers "My body is my Pleasure Palace & I Love it”.  This is not to say that I do not love the company of a Man. I most surely Do.  But, I just Love myself first. Often women are afraid or uncomfortable with the idea of experimenting with sex toys and there are several reasons for this. 

First, many women were given negative ideas and attitudes about sex as young girls. Second, they got the idea that even intercourse itself was bad and dirty so, obviously adding a foreign object to the equation is out of the picture.

But, many women are inquisitive enough to search on the Internet and attend Adult parties to find out more about Toys. According to Charlie Glickman, PhD., a sexuality educator; “It also gives you room to try new things without stressing about a partner’s expectations.” Self Love/Masturbation is a pressure release, a natural sleeping pill and a plain old fashioned good time without any strings attached. As a former party consultant, I cannot tell you how many times Mrs. Housewife would attend a party just to hear what her Sisterfriends were talking about, and to gain some knowledge on the QT.  She was not apt to make any purchases, but she was like a sponge soaking it all up. The minute a glass of wine came into the equation. . . everyone had questions.  I always told the party attendees, there were No stupid questions, and we can all learn from each other.  I'm still saying that Here!!

Long ago, I learned that heterosexual males are turned on by a woman who is uninhibited about her sexuality. And, that he would rather date a confident woman with an imperfect shape than a stick figure with no confidence.   A Desire Diva does not waste time fretting about stubble and cellulite, wishing she was skinny, or wishing she did not take so long to climax. How did these ladies become so aware of their pleasure points? Self Love. There are many resources where you can educate yourself and/or purchase toys that can improve your life. Do not put yourself in a box.  And, Do NOT settle for Less than you Deserve.

I hope this post opens the door to more conversations with your Sisterfriends. 

Because, it will flush out Any Abuse among Us.

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